my babies

me: i just love those sweet little boys.
bryan: yeah, you know one day they're gonna grow up.
me: i'd rather not talk about it.
bryan: wifey, you need to start preparing yourself for that now so you can let them go when you need to without having an emotional break down.
me: i'm aware of that, but i've still got like 16 more years. i don't have to think about it now.
bryan: they're probably gonna get married one day, you know...
me: yes, i know.
bryan:...and then their wives are gonna de-flower them.
me: HUSB! really?! i really don't have to think through all of that right now.
bryan: hahaha!

i already don't like the idea of my baby boys growing up. let me just clarify that i do want them to grow up and have wonderful successful marriages. i pray that they find wifeys that can love them better and understand them better and support them better than even i can... i also just want them around as long as possible.

my husb thinks it's hilarious to tease me about it though.

he is kind of funny, but don't tell him i said that.

little hands

asher really loves to help. i'm sure part of that is him trying to assert his toddler independence by doing big boy things with mom and dad, but no matter the cause, it's still a quality we appreciate about our stinker. bry and i have talked a lot about trying to encourage his helpful behavior by letting him help us do things. today, he really wanted to help with the laundry.

asher: i can just help you with dis?

*he throws some dirty laundry from the hamper in the dryer where i've been throwing clean clothes.

me: oops! those don't go in there!

asher: myyy moooom, i can just help you!

me: ok, bud. here ya go. put this is there for me.

*i proceed to hand him one piece of wet clothing at a time for him to put in the dryer. 

asher: ok! here we go!

*he enjoys throwing each piece into the dryer as hard as he can.

me: great job, asher john.

*i repeat the process by letting him individually throw each article of clothing from the hamper into the washer. after we're done he says,

asher: i just help you, my mom! good job! 

i'm ashamed to say that too often i think of his sweet, helpful hands as getting in the way of my efficiency. throwing a single piece of clothing at a time into the washer and dryer is completely and totally INefficient. i would rather just get things done and checked off of my list than take the time to teach his fumbling toddler hands to help. 

shame. on. me.

may we never take for granted a single second spent with our children, no matter how inefficient it may seem.

may we all enjoy the precious, simple moments teaching them the things of life. 

may we love them with our time, in action and in truth (1 John 3:18).

here's some more inspiring blog posts on the subject:

Making Muffins and Hearing Heartbeats by Molly Piper

These Hands by Jones Design Company